The stories of divisions or betrayal nowadays have become so frequent that such situations seem completely acceptable. First in a more detailed spectrum, such as that of the psychologist, such reports can restore you to unsafe positions that often affect your daily life and behavior. Here's a similar one found in one of the most read editions of Elle magazine Ask. E. Jean.
Question of the Day: Should I go out for dinner with my ex boyfriend ?! Psychology has this answer, but first get to know the story ...
Honored E. Jean , I am a beautiful and smart girl, who has gone through a terrible and tragic explosion of feelings because of a man who absolutely worships. After spending half a year recognizing him, then spending a year and a half on the part on fantastic trips and holidays trying to develop a relationship with him, he threw me away. Without any explanation! After this event, I came to my senses, I returned to New York and started a new career. My problem? He is flying to New York for a business meeting and has asked me to dinner with him. I've never thought about what I'll wear, and I've been in the diet and in strict training just to look more in shape. I do not really like any fantasy of the type: "I'm wrong, moving here to be with you. Marry me"! Do I have to worry too about spending an evening with her? In fact, I lost the perspective of a relationship with her since we split, but this request for dinner seems odd to me ...
Answer: Do you have to worry ?! Please! Go! Be yourself! But I warn you: Your imagination from dress, to dinners, to the menu, or question marks is a kind of skepticism that you have fallen prey to. Better say, you missed the idea of â??â??reorganization. Man is an insecure being, always! So, allow me to suggest a script: You kiss him in sharing the good night after leaving the restaurant. Enter a taxi, stay close to the passenger door, while you lower the taxi glass, and give another kiss and leave. So, with glory and mass indifference you will make it rethink everything it has to do with you!
