Despite the development of social networks, about 50% of adults find it difficult to find a partner. Many of you may not even know why you do not have someone in your arm. We will help you with some reasons that prevent you from establishing long and harmonious relationships.
You idealize a relationship
Everyone has their own ideas for a perfect connection: one can be inspired by a romantic film and someone else can be inspired by a book. The dream of people is that these love stories become true. There is no ideal relationship and no perfect couples.
What to Do: You must understand that your partner is a real person, not a character of a book. So when you observe them in a relationship, they make mistakes like any other man.
You have no respect for yourself
Respecting yourself and other people is the foundation of every relationship. Can you really love someone who does not respect yourself? If you connect with a person but do not have respect for yourself this will also be reflected in the relationship.
Example: Kate Winslet's character at "The Holiday" was in love with a person who used her loyalty and talent. Everything changed when she decisively decided to be saved from her addiction to love. She changed people around her until she found new interests and a new love.
What to Do: At first, you need to find your own inner support to help yourself when you are depressed and depressed. This may have to do with your achievements, hobbies, or guiding principles. Everything that is important to you and helps you know the value of yourself. Do not let someone make you doubt your importance.
Break on the privacy of others
There is an opinion that manipulation techniques can help regulate a relationship. But no one likes to manipulate, or even worse, when someone tries to change us.
Example: Rosamund Pike's character at "Gone Girl" wanted to condemn her husband to deceive so much that she made her doll, forcing her to go through many challenges. Of course, after he returned, she realized that her husband's love and trust had vanished and that he was afraid of his life.
What to Do: In every relationship, you must act within the given limits. They end up where other people's borders begin. If you do not like your partner's behavior and they know it but still do not want to change anything, you have to make a choice: stay with them or leave. Changing a person who does not want to change is impossible.
