Crises occur in the lives of all couples. They can be large or small. Some couples divorce after 2-3 years of marriage, while others live together for many years. Long-term marriages are not just a matter of luck, but happy couples face each problem together in their family. Bright Side, lists a series of common problems that may be happening to happy couples. And as it turns out, they can be easily solved:
Excessive coils
Most newly married couples gain a considerable weight after their marriage. Scientists from Glasgow University conducted research and concluded that young married couples earn about 3-5 pounds within the first year of their married life. In general, married people weigh 13 pounds more than single ones. Too often, weight gain is associated with the state of psychological comfort, because the partners are safe with each other and therefore, say "let's rest a little."
What to do?
Losing weight together is easier than it looks, because there will always be a person near you that will motivate you. However, doctors warn that if men lose weight quickly, this can cause disappointment to women. The best way to get in shape is to ride bicycles, walk in the evening.
The birth of children leads to a financial crisis
Childbirth causes financial problems in a new family. Surveys held by nurserymen showed that parents are not always willing to have children and this does not depend on their financial condition. Middle-aged and low-income families face shortage of money.
What to do?
Begin to save money before the birth of your first child and be saved from unnecessary expenses. For example, it would be better if you buy a used bed or a free cart, as the child will not use it for too long and you do not have to spend so much.
Conflicts with their mother-in-law
Relationships between "bride and mother-in-law" or "groom and mother-in-law" are sometimes a real comedy. Psychologists say such relationships can be quite dramatic and can harm the health of both parties. The tension is particularly strong in the relationship between brides and mother-in-law. The research conducted in 1954 showed that two-thirds of their mother-in-laws were unhappy with their son's wife, while the brides had a negative attitude towards their mothers' mothers. Japanese scientists have discovered that women living with their mother-in-law are more likely to experience ischemic heart disease.
What to do?
The best way to avoid conflicts with your mother-in-law is to live separately. Perhaps the beginning of a lifestyle with a spouse will only be considered, but it is worth it. However, if you do not have an opportunity to live separately, you better use your diplomatic skills and explain to your husband how much you get bored of your mother-in-law debates.
Get bored of your partner's habits
After several months of living together, some of your best half habits can start bothering you. Psychologists are confident that this happens to many couples and that does not mean that your love is over. Surprisingly, those habits that attracted you to your partner once, may dislike you later. Love for sports, a passion for reading more, having long nights with friends - all these are on the list of the most annoying habits.
What to do?
Accept them. Remember: Your partner's habits make it so unique. Ultimately you love that person because of these habits.
Be 24/7 together and get bored
There is an opinion that couples should spend all the time together, because it strengthens the relationship and contributes to the formation of common interests. However, some couples are frustrated after living this kind of life for several years.
What to do?
Both partners must have their own passions that are not interesting to the other side. There is nothing wrong with spending your own weekend - it only contributes to the strengthening of the relationship.
