We all make promises. Let's say to the people we love, that we can not live without them, but most of the time they come out that they were just words. However, again, we want to hear such promises. People need to feel some certainty in their relationship to be happy. Are we ever completely safe? There are a hundred ways to lose the one you want, yet none are worse than betraying. Especially if you are of those people who have never betrayed betrayal, nor have you ever understood them.
If you do not get too late for the man you say you love and you will have other experiences, then think about the relationship once. Leave them "I need", we all need. The man with whom you also need, but wants you to be faithful. Being or betrayed is the worst feeling in the world, emotionally always. It may be overwhelming. Who has tried, for sure, would not want to feel it for any other reason.
First, you will not believe what you are listening to
Many people learn that partner is betraying them from third parties. Rarely people have the courage to reveal to their partners what they have done. Often, you have no chance of discovering yourself. Most traitors are christening traitors. Although this may be a very general statement to be true in any case, the truth is that those who betray, do so because they believe there is nothing wrong with it. And do it regularly. They will never accept their actions, so listening to friends can be ... difficult. It is likely that you will not trust them first, try to rationalize yourself, thinking that they should be for whatever reason, trying to sabotage your relationship.
You know what? Even when he or she says it is difficult to believe again
You will not accept what happened, because as soon as you accept it, it becomes true. And when it becomes true, it hurts. Your world, as you may know, is crushed. The earth beneath your feet opens and there is nothing left to hold you. It's different if you betray him with whom he is just coming out, and another thing when a man or a woman who suddenly puts it that you're not good enough or good for him. Because that's how it is spelled out, is not it? You loved this man with all your heart and it turns out you're lied. The reality you have created for yourself has been rewritten instantly and you feel completely or lost.
Your future has just been rewritten and you have no idea how the book will end. This is the worst part when they betray. Not necessarily the sore ego that shakes your world, is the future you have planned to disappear and you do not know where to go.
The ego gets hurt and you start asking yourself
You begin to wonder if you are so good as you think. You think you were smart, handsome, dedicated, dear, an ideal person for a life partner. But the man you love, the man you've decided to dedicate your life, will throw you away.
Of course, there are plenty of times when someone leaves you. Things have not worked and you have to accept the situation as it is, but betrayal is another thing. Being betrayed comes as a clear message that the problem is you're not good enough.
In 50 percent of cases, people betray partners with a "one-night stand" with a completely foreign person. How can you take this action differently? Once you've learned that your partner would like to sleep with anyone else than you. The worst part of it is that you start believing that you are not good enough. You are ready to question yourself, what you are, the choices you have made in your life. It may be one of those experiences to shake the world, because we are generally proud people. How can you continue to feel proud of yourself once you have given a slap in your face?
Do your best to find a way to continue
After a few months of disruptive state, you have to change. Some may decide to see life and reality with another eye, focus on themselves and work. Others will decide that at this very moment, more than ever have to allow themselves to relax a bit, very understandable in a situation like this.
The hardest part, of course, is to forget what you want. Just being betrayed does not mean it has made you not to be late for it. In fact, this does not happen often.
People tend to get tighter even when they push them. It is not the smart habit, but it is one of the many people. If you want someone to leave behind, it's difficult. Possible but difficult. You can have it easier if you focus all the negative emotions that have made you feel to him or her, but pain will remind you how important it is for you. Or it has been. You are still unsure of this.
