Paolo Crepet is a psychiatrist and sociologist and is publishing a new book devoted to love, where he tells stories and makes reflections derived from his existential and professional experience revolving around this sacred word: passion.
During an interview with La Repubblica, he wanted to talk about the negative feeling that a person in the couple might feel, or else jealousy. In addition, we wanted to stop the violence against women: "After a woman, many realities are hidden. In essence, many people still have difficulties in accepting the long run of women's liberation despite the fact that they have spent more than For forty years since many conquests, as a divorce, they have not worked out what has happened in these years, in a concept of the archaic family that still sees the woman as submissive and the male with a dominant role. "
The renowned sociologist wanted to explain that after jealousy and violence against women lies an ancient culture and difficult to eliminate. A man manages to control a woman, even to beat him, because some live in the kind of culture that sees the male as a protector, who manages him and makes him feel all his power over the woman he has . Unfortunately, this attitude is not only a part of the past, but also of the present, and there are many young people who think so, that they must be such partners, add jealousy in order to feel their protagonism about. According to them, a passion should be demonstrated both psychologically and physically. Therefore, it is believed that this kind of behavior becomes an integral part of any romantic relationship, so it can also trigger violent reactions.
Jealousy always brings disasters, drama and young people should be taught not to consider this as a symptom of love, for it is never like that. And it should be said in big letters that jealousy is not a form of love, but just fixation. Love is respect over all. I love you, so I respect you!
The problem arises when a woman begins to tolerate these violent attitudes when her partner controls her all the time and become possessive, this feeling of love turns into manipulation and fixation. Because of violence, there is always the idea of considering women as objects rather than individuals. I kill you, because you're my thing ... It's hard to admit that a girl today does the same things and the same life as a boy of her age. These equal opportunities foster anger, jealousy, envy of frustrated people because such a woman is free and can choose not to be disturbed.
At the end of his interview and confession, the well-known sociologist explains that mothers should teach their daughters not to stay with their boyfriend when the relationship becomes more personal, in the first pomp, they must leave. If one hits you, is violent, does not mean that he loves you and cares for you. And that's the fact!
