Not just women! Sometimes men also draw their pretexts when they do not want to have an intimate relationship with their partner. If women often invent classic headache excuses, what do men invent? The excuses they choose are fantastic, sometimes brilliant. The goal is always the same: to avoid passion under the sheets and push it for another time.
The first and most used is: I ate or drank a lot. It's a phrase that hides a little truth. Often, after eating an abundant meal, accompanied by an excessive amount of alcohol, even the most fearless men do not allow themselves to be thrown into the arms of a woman with kisses or caresses because she is unable to . What's more, alcohol is known to slow down reflexes and make dating more complicated.
Another recurring excuse is about fatigue. Many men end up saying that they have faced a very difficult and stressful day, so much that the only thing they want is to sleep.
But the excuses used by men not to make love do not end there. For example, they often claim to be in a hurry and have no time for sex. Or they say they have little time and fall asleep.
An excuse is better than the truth not to hurt the other person. In fact you may not have the desire to make love, but that doesn't mean that the attraction for your partner is gone. You just aren't in the right mood or it's not the right time.
The important thing is to understand the needs and try not to aggravate the situation. Do you want to have sex? If it happens once in a while don't worry, when excuses instead make a constant effort to not end up in bed then you need to figure out what's wrong.
