If it is true that some healthy jealousy within the couple's relationship is good, it is equally true that the craze for control and fixation destroys the relationships and the people who are part of it.

The line between jealousy and fixation is really very thin, actually this boundary intersects when you start to have a feeling of relationship dependency, just like it was a panacea. When the partner actually becomes the center of the world, as if nothing else existed, problems could begin.

Too often, people who tend to be obsessive and possessive of half of them are the ones who suffer from emotional dependence and therefore find in the partner all the deficiencies they have in their heart and soul.

Of course, each case must be evaluated individually to reveal the origin of possessive jealousy, but everything arises when one experiences total dependence on one's partner.

Excessive jealousy, in most cases, turns out to be the craze for control. A very harmful behavior to the relationship and to the people who are part of it. Obsessive control of everything the partner does consumes the energy of both the subjects of the relationship.

Emotional blackmail

What the controlled partner suffers is a real emotional blackmail: by not stressing the control behavior he will probably be accused of hiding something or not trying enough, but if he accepts it, he will inevitably end up being an accomplice to it personal illness and torque. The truth is that this is not good for anyone and those who are not happy with themselves will inevitably fail to find peace or balance in the couple.

The unhealthy bond is established only when the victim and the executioner form in the couple. And one thing is for sure, this is not good for the couple. Therefore, we need to stop in time and work on our own to maintain love and make the relationship lasting.