It's not just Albanians who are obsessed with wanting to record a sex tape - according to Cambridge Dictionary, recording themselves engaging in sexual activity with the intention of making the video private - but what Albanians do during their attempt to record a cork sex, obviously constitutes a new semantic category. This is probably because we, the Albanian men, are a species in itself, a strange mixture of great ego and terrible fear of judging others.
Albanians die from the desire to record their sexual activity with video, and even have a collage, a whole series of recordings, possibly with different partners. These videos are not recorded for later viewing by the partners themselves, so that they reflect on their experience from a different perspective, but they are recorded for the sole purpose of being shown to the boys, and with that I donâ??t have it. the word only for friends. As a phenomenon, this archaic boast can be multifaceted (e.g. the Alpha male complex), but also an indication of latent homosexuality, as these videos serve as an abstract proof of manhood and confirmation of being indisputably straight, a something I have dealt with in my novel Edith.
Obsessed with recording sexual activity are some of my acquaintances - from my private circle but also from the world of art and public life - and it is not uncommon for our conversations to deviate towards the great desire of these friends of mi to show such videos. As a narration of the video, the story usually focused on praising what female flags she had in her hand, how she did it, possibly with as many film motifs as possible. There have been cases when an attractive woman suddenly appeared in a cafe or club and then the report started: she sees what is making us moral, she is thisâ?¦ and then the word was illustrated with a video on the phone where she was seen for a long time act.
But, not wanting to prolong this story, regardless of who has recorded such videos, whether celebrities or ordinary millet, all of these videos have one thing in common that never changes. In the video, only AJO is always seen, in various poses and activities, spontaneous or at the request of the gentleman, but rarely, almost never, is AI seen. Not because the gentleman has another connection or something similar, but he just doesn't want him to be exposed because, as I said at the beginning, he is terribly afraid of public judgment.
How can I describe such a person? Funk?
Since such videos have been re-updated again recently, giving little electrifying energy to the atmosphere aggravated by pandemic, I feel the need to say that I am against any attempt to restrict the freedom of the individual, including the right to do so. sex with anyone the slave wants, the right to record erotic videos or to vegetate and masturbate on pornographic sites, but I am against the cowardice shown by hiding myself during the recording, I am against all those who virally distribute a video such and that explode in gossip and moral judgments to the point of taking the life of another, but I am also very critical of the naivety that Albanian women show when they agree to be recorded in a video where only she is seen, while he remains mysterious and protected by the clutches of public judgment.
Anyone who wants to advertise the potential of his penis or the creativity of fantasy should go to the end and not hide during the video, otherwise the whole thing is just a continuation of the popular sport of continuous stigmatization of Albanian women.
When I wrote the book "Mrs. Z", I had in mind the oppressed women and the castrated men of the Albanian reality, which includes those who admit to being tools in everyone's hands, as well as those who do not have the courage to show that they are proud holders of a magnificent potency that they so diligently advertise in the video.
In the end I want to add something very important for me: these videos are also recorded for blackmail, first against the woman as a certain individual, but also as a gender in general. In the Albanian reality for the same thing, which is equally aspirated by both sexes, she is a bitch while he is a pussy (this is a high and respected social title).
In other words, it's all a very malicious, highly sophisticated entrepreneur to justify with various excuses, from what we can hear up and down. Meanwhile, the most slanderous indicator of our sophisticated urban primitivism is the collective mania to give life to the circulation of these videos, certainly as material to masturbate, so that everyone can stand out in a purge of gossip and moral judgment. .
Itâ??s all meanness.
The humiliation that comes from the filthy, for some other filthiness, in the function of the collective vileness that boils us behind every hymn we weave to morality.
(this reflection is completely personal)
