A statement a few days ago by journalist Aulona Musta about kissing children on the lips sparked public debate. Aulona, however, not only openly expresses her views, but is also adamant whenever this topic is discussed.
Invited this afternoon to "Rudina" for parenting, Aulona said that, together with her husband, it is categorical and this "is not a whim, it is not a whim."
" I have always expressed it and recently there was a very big debate about a statement I made about kissing on the lips. Despite the fact that she was wider than just kissing on the lips. I am against, I read a lot before I became a mother and I have said it many times that I have studied psychology. I have studied a lot in terms of child developmentâ?¦ Also, the fact that I have worked for many years with Lira Gjika has helped me a lot to understand why the child should not kiss on the lips. Itâ??s not a whim, itâ??s not a whim. No doubt it can happen to you, or it can happen to someone at some pointâ?¦
Personally, it has never happened to me. My husband and I are categorical about this. Amaris once happened to be with her husband. They were playing and a head-scratching kiss, he kissed her on the lips instead of kissing her on the cheek and Amaris was: 'Iiiii dad what did you do, kiss me on the lips, that's a forbidden thing'. And I like that fact, I like it because I know Amara will react if tomorrow, God forbid, if it happens that someone wants to cross that border that we have taught them not to cross. And kissing on the lips is a very intimate thing. We donâ??t kiss people on the lips, when we meet we donâ??t kiss on the lips. There is a reason that the lip is an indication of an intimate relationship.
