By Lira Gjika / When parents divorce
Two individuals, who once trusted each other, built intimacy, experienced unique moments, today are found as strangers and even enemies. "Darkened" by anger or the feeling of suffering, of victimization, they forget everything and above all, the responsibility for their child.
This irresponsibility does not stand out to anyone. This irresponsibility, which the state can optimally smooth out, if it achieves the right motivations and mechanisms, continues to be a wound that cripples and turns children into tools.
Adults are not able to distinguish between what they feel for each other as husband and wife and being the parents of their child.
He, the child, as evidence and materialization of a unique moment of their lives, can not do without them. He will not know about their anger, their wrath, their morals, the law, who violated it and who did not. He needs and loves his mother and father, among others.
They forget that the man-woman relationship is temporary, while that parent-child relationship continues even after death. (taken from the book "Childhood")
