Demi Lovato was sincere about her sexuality during the Facebook event "Coming Out 2020" on Friday, October 9. Recently, the singer has become more open about the fact that she is identified as * queer, as she explained the moment when she revealed her attraction to girls.
"It happened when I was younger and I definitely should not have seen 'Cruel Intentions', but I saw it and it was the scene where they came out on the park lawn," Demi said, referring to the scene where Sarah Michelle Gellar's character learns the character. of Selma Blair how to kiss. "I thought, 'Oh, wait a minute, I like this a lot, I want to try it.' And then when I was 17, I turned to this thing."
She reveals that she first discovered her sexual orientation in adolescence, confessing it to friends, then family and finally fans and the entire public.
"I told all my friends and my older sister when I was 17," she continued. "They all knew it before I found out about my parents and then about the public. "These were my three stages: friends, parents, the public."
What many fans may not realize is that many of her love songs are actually dedicated to girls.
"There were times when I wrote songs for girls that my fans thought I was writing for boys," she explained. "I'm surprised many of them did not realize that some of the songs were for certain people. I was sharing it with the world, however I was not completely clear about what I was talking about. Music was my safe space."
* Queer: A word that is used in different ways and means different things to different people.
1) Attraction for people of many genders.
2) Non-compliance with cultural norms about gender and / or sexuality.
3) A general term that refers to all non-heterosexual people.