Eni Çobani and her husband Aveniri have rarely appeared together in public, where they have talked at length about their acquaintance and love. In the column 'My Half' they have shown that after several months of acquaintance, they got engaged directly and after a year of engagement she went to live with her husband's family without marriage.
Eni recounted the situation in the family, when she had to stay for the first time in her husband's house. Even Eni could not escape the mentality of that time when she was not allowed to sleep with her husband before marriage.
"We had just been engaged, we had spent almost a year and in '97, in that bad year for all Albanians, Avenir panicked because he was closing the shops, they had even shot him in the head when he was collecting the commodity and was in a tremendous panic.He comes to me at home with great fear and asks my parents that I will not leave Ann here.Think, we were still living with that family culture that you can not go home of my unmarried husband and my parents were reluctant. "
Eni said that it was difficult for her parents to persuade her to go to her partner's house, but when she went there she had another difficulty: where would Eni sleep ?!
"They hardly left me, Avenir takes me, takes me to the apartment, of course for Avenir's parents it was not so simple because I would not just go for a visit or lunch, but I would sleep. For Avenir's parents and mainly for his late mother, it was a big problem where I would sleep.When the evening came when we would all lie down, I was looking my mother-in-law in the eye where she would put me.Avenir's sister also lived in that apartment at that time and "Of course everyone had their own bed, I was without a bed. She had prepared Avenir's room, Avenir had been taken out to the kitchen and I slept in his room alone without him."
And after that Eni humorously shows that this situation lasted only three or four hours, until midnight came ...
