Lots of attention girl! We are giving you an orientation of just four questions to avoid if you do not want to make your heart man nervous. Keep note!

1. Am I fat?

Men despise this question because there is no clear way to answer it correctly. If he says "No", the woman may accuse him of lying, but if he responds with brutal sincerity and says "No, but you can give up the ice cream", it will only hurt his feelings. Men are attracted to confident women and such questions make them look insecure.

2. How was your ex-girlfriend?

Before asking this question, consider your reasons. Are you trying to figure out what kind of women are attracted to him? Are you just curious? Are you afraid he will fall in love with her again? After answering these questions, consider whether the answer to this question is really important to you. Questions like this make you look insecure. That relationship didn’t work out for one or several reasons, so don’t give him a chance to go back.

3. Will you call me when you get to work / before bed?

Djemve u pëlqen të telefonojnë partneret e tyre, por vetëm kur duan, jo sepse mendojnë se duhet të telefonojnë. Nëse ai ndihet i detyruar që t'ju telefonojë dhe t'ju tregojë çdo lëvizje, ai ngadalë do të fillojë të ndjehet i refuzuar kur të marrë telefonin në dorë. Thirrjet e tij telefonike mund t’ju ​​bëjnë të ndjeheni më të sigurta, por a nuk do të dëshironit t’i kushtonit më shumë vëmendje nëse i jepnit lirinë të bënte zgjedhjet e tij se sa i rëndësishëm është ai për ju dhe kush interesohet për ju? Do të ndiheni shumë më mirë kur ta dini se ai po e bën këtë gjë sepse do dhe jo sepse është i detyruar.

4. Ku e sheh veten 10 vitet e ardhshme?

Most men do not have long-term plans for their relationship. They live the moment and enjoy every second spent with the woman they care about. This does not mean that men do not want things or long-term goals, but if they are committed to you now, they do not think about what will happen in ten years. He is happy with the way things are going and he just wants to keep going. Sometimes, insecure women ask such questions in an attempt to persuade the boy to say that marriage, children or buying a house are part of his plans for the future. If you feel insecure about your relationship, it is good to ask questions about the future, but you should not ask questions about your plans after ten years if you are in a relationship of only six months.