Some things, in fact, are not said to last forever. When it comes to relationships, it is not easy to say what will make love last, but there is a key to healthy, happy and passionate relationships on which all couples can rely. "The main feature of a healthy relationship is the ability of each individual to remain so (individual) even when he is in a couple with another," says a marriage therapist, Rabiia Ali.
" A healthy relationship involves two people having a life of their own, which includes other healthy relationships. At the same time, they have decided to share each other's lives with each other."
While romantic relationships may seem like the most important thing in your life, the ability to stay as an individual, nurture other relationships with family and friends, or have a life separate from that with your partner, is crucial. "Before establishing a serious relationship with someone, an individual must be a complete person," Ali said. It means connecting with other people, cultivating hobbies and personal interests, being okay with being alone, and working for yourself. This way of thinking and living will make you enjoy it and be happier in the relationship you will create.
The best way to do this is by acknowledging each person with the personality traits and personality traits he or she has. The latter can complement you and make you feel together as a whole. For example, if you want to be the center of attention, find someone who will not be hiding from the spotlight.
The characteristics that fill you in do not mean being with someone who puts you in front of yourself, but being someone who can fill your gaps by making you grow. "I tell my clients all the time since they enter a relationship, 'One person is blue and the other is red,'" Ali said. " When you are together, it does not mean that you turn purple. You have to step forward as 'blue' and 'red' side by side and find someone who meets you."
