It is often difficult to discern potential problems in a relationship when you are in the footsteps of a new love. You even hope that seemingly small issues will be resolved easily. But the reality is that many early relationship problems can get worse over time.
If you notice something that seems a little uncomfortable - maybe your partner is controlling you, or you both argue often - do not underestimate them. Keep in mind that a small lie today can turn into a big lie tomorrow.
Below are all the signs that speak of even deeper problems over time.
1. Your communication is not effective at all.
Always end up in debates, tensions and find yourself not being able to pull anything out of the next conflict.
2. One of you has cheated
If one of you has started a relationship with physical / emotional betrayal, the relationship is destined to fail in one way or another. Infidelity is generally the most devastating problem in a relationship, with serious consequences.
3. You catch them constantly lying
Even the slightest misunderstandings can be a sign that requires caution! At first they may seem like small and insignificant lies, but lies weaken a bond by paving the way for jealousy and insecurity.
4. He is the Controller and the Commander.
If at first his jealousy and fixation on you seems interesting, you will change your mind later, when you realize that you are living in a toxic relationship.
5. You have opposite approaches when it comes to money and expenses
... and this is a source of conflict!
6. They have severe problems with alcohol
If your partner is a problem drinker, you need to be prepared for what awaits you! Every habit when you cross the limits turns into anxiety and the consequences of alcohol can turn out to be much bigger than you initially thought.
7. S'keni kimi seksuale
Nëse nuk përputheni seksualisht dhe s'keni kimi ndaj njëri-tjetrit, përfundimisht duhet të punoni me komunikimin. Edhe pse në pjesën më të madhe të rasteve kimia s'është diçka që mund të përftohet me përpjekje nga ana juaj. Thjesht ndihet!
8. Ata janë ende duke menduar/folur për ish-in
Nëse është kështu, mund të prisni probleme edhe më të mëdha në ardhmen e lidhjes suaj. Mund të ndodhë gjithçka: ai mund të kthehet me të, mund t'ju tradhtojë apo t'ju gënjejë për një kohë të gjatë.
9. S'njohin respekt dhe as kufij
Nëse dikush s'të respekton në takimet e para, imagjinojeni pak në të 100-ën. Ç'mund të prisni?!
10. They can not stand to criticize
Hm, something can be done about it if you notice it as a defect in the beginning of the relationship.
