Zhaklin Lekatari, journalist and activist, founder of the blog "Tabu.al" one of the most rebellious voices in the Albanian media was invited today to "Vila24 'moderated by Brunilda Lahe. Ready to speak openly about sex education, the emancipation of society and her private life, Lekatari surprised with her unstinting story about her family and childhood, showing that after her father passed away, her mother gave her up for adoption. her and her sister in an Italian family.
Lekatari admits that he did not experience this decision well and does not retain the impression of the family that adopted him, and even says that he has no communication with them, except for his younger brother, criticizes the adoptive mother who has not yet apologized for the way he behaved to and contains emotions when it seems clear that her experience in Italy has been quite difficult. " Great traumas happened to me immediately, but the pain enriches you. It took us years to heal the trauma… "- adds the affected Jacques as he discovers the relationship with her biological mother.
" I had feelings of rejection, feelings of guilt, I had a complicated relationship with my mother…" , she says, adding that now that she has returned to Albania, she lives with her biological mother, Antonetta. Jacques' turbulent life, after his Catholic college, his studies at a secular university, continues with a new chapter in Kosovo.
" In Kosovo I lost myself, I found another reality. There I was impoverished by the way I spoke, how I behaved, I prejudiced myself… " - she adds, while focusing on returning to Albania, which she experienced as a renaissance. "Albania has anathema me, they told me to join the line, I hated the rule, I hated Albania, it seemed to me as a source of my suffering, but I realized that I had the problem inside me and I had to face it" - says Zhaku , which in every interview is like a book that needs to be re-read many times. At the beginning of the conversation, she gave space to her blog on sex education, announcing that she has already started a cycle of distance studies on these topics, claiming to be the first woman who tries to "decriminalize" a woman's sexuality. BW /