All parents strive to be perfect for their children. Some are strict, some are not, but everyone is doing what they think is right. However, very often parents forget what are the most important things for their children.
These are the main signs that show that you are a really good parent.
1. Your child shares problems with you.
It's great when your son or daughter tells you about their successes and achievements. But it is much more important that they are able to show you the problems. Children need to understand that different situations can happen and that there is nothing wrong with making mistakes.
2. You don't think good grades are everything.
If your child got a bad grade at school, they shouldn't be afraid to tell you. Frightened children often hide grades and panic when they think their parents might find out. Good parents can explain to children that it is important to be a good student in school, but it is knowledge that really matters, not grades.
3. Everyone's private space is respected in your family.
Many parents think that children should knock before entering the room. But the parents themselves do not always follow this rule. The rules in the family should be the same for everyone. Respect children's private space and they will do the same for you.
4. You do not criticize the child.
Good parents do not criticize their children or call them stupid or lazy. These words make children feel insecure for a long time, maybe even forever. Choose your words carefully and say exactly what you're disappointed about, but don't insult your children.
5. You admit your mistakes and apologize.
Everyone makes mistakes: children and adults. However, most parents forget that they should not only teach their children to apologize, but also show them how to do it. If you realized that you reacted badly when you had no reason, do not be ashamed when you apologize to the child. A person who can admit weakness is a strong person.
6. You do not impose your interests on children.
Learn to notice the talent of children and do not impose your dreams on them. Good parents encourage children to develop and help them grow up to be happy people who do what they love.
7. You trust children's words.
This is a situation that happens very often: a mother or father goes to school and the teacher tells them that the child has become naughty. An angry parent does not try to find out any details about the situation, return home and start a scandal. But before you shout, it is better to ask the child how they saw the situation. Maybe it's not their fault and they actually need your help to deal with the situation.
