Most of us grew up in a period when "screen time" was not a concept. Parents often find it difficult to keep their children away from different screens. The American Academy of Pediatrics says 1 to 7 hours per week of TV or video game time is within the norm.
Children love the screen. Parents, on the other hand, seem to find little peace as the children get confused. Still, parents blush and shrug when they admit they're forced to do this because it's the only way they can deal with other chores, such as preparing dinner.
But there is nothing wrong with children watching TV, and if they do it often, it can bring peace and joy to the family.
"We know that most children who watch TV will be fine. But parents who have children with behavioral disorders or who suffer from autism require special care," said Anya Kamenetz, an education correspondent at NPR (private public radio).
The problem is not television, but what it can replace. If sitting in front of the television turns into physical activity, then yes, problems can arise. But one cartoon a day won't lead to problems. Kamenetz explained that the culture shift around screen time is not the result of increased use.
"Today, children don't spend more time in front of the screen than they did in the 80s," she said
Rather, the shame and bitterness stems from the rise of a parenting culture (full of educated and wealthy parents) that expects mothers and fathers to devote themselves intensely to children.
But it is noticed that the parent is getting lazy and the child is not engaging in physical activities. Kamanetz suggests that parents watch television with their children as often as possible. This gives them the opportunity to discuss with the children the characteristics of the characters and helps them to take attitudes.
Television gives parents a chance to understand their children better.
This social function of television not only helps the relationship with adult children (adolescents), but also the connection of children with each other. A shared interest in TV shows and movies can help build relationships and turn new or scary situations into something social for children.
