I don't want to deal with the "Big Brother" phenomenon, but with the "why should you sell intimacy on television" phenomenon?
I found Ilnisa ??nice and a good presence in the cast, I hadn't even known her before until I saw such an original reporter of village life in the introductory clip. I also liked her courage as a "Single Mom" ??to use a super-followed platform to assert herself as a woman and as a journalist. On the other hand, Meritoni, attractive, followed with his program, also followed online.
I do not want to judge the feelings that arise in such an unusual context as television, nor the feelings of a woman towards someone she likes and vice versa, but I would not have chosen to give myself so quickly in such an unsafe space without knowing the terrain well and especially without getting guarantees that the partner is not just playing a game...
We cannot judge how true the feeling is, and how involved Meriton is, (even though Ilnisa ??seems fragile and romantic to us).
But if a love affair is used simply to grab the audience's attention then, it would make the protagonists too objectionable. We wish a happy Ending scenario and Continuation beyond the program.
Maybe this is a choice that should be understood, because there are plenty of easy choices in life, but if you thought a little more than a season of happiness in life, another example could be given.
It can happen 1 in so many million times, a true great love, a beautiful story that continues even after the program, that is finalized with a joint life or a family and children...
Or just a beautiful romance without projections like these above since both are single and both have children.
Not everyone would enter Big Brother or Love Dating Shows to find love there...
I not once. Love is something else for me.
The loves that are sought and born in "laboratories that conserve people and human emotions" are loves of a different kind.
There are exceptions and examples of life that have proven that yes, with low probabilities but it can happen....
I personally would never enter to make a show with emotions, with every drama and unhealed trauma of life, I would not enter to instrumentalize my heart, intimacy and privacy for fame. But this is a matter of choice.
I would only enter if I proved a good role model, if I knew how to show that playing Big is like Surfing on waves. You always have to stay up, keep your balance, because the wave will break your ribs if you don't know how to find the right side of the ridge!
We can call it adventure, we can define it as a need to fill a void, to take revenge on someone who has disappointed us outside, to live a little excitement, happiness, adrenaline.
It can be done to kill the monotony inside the house without phones or TV, where a romance line makes you stand out, for fame and clicks, sometimes even for love.
To be honest, it was not pleasant today, when I heard on every social network the excited breathing and phrases under the blanket of the couple, which ignites the collective imagination, on the screen, in a scene that reminds you of the scriptwriter Hot. I felt like I went out on my own in front of everyone without any concern for what belongs to you, which is private, sacred.
Since I am a girl; in her place, I would allow myself to feel, but I would put the relationship to the test and leave recognition out of the program. I would judge myself less even if I was wrong! For a part of the public, this scene makes you judgmental, and I belong to this category.
Maybe those who enter there have a problem with this approach, but a part of our society does.
It is awkward for the audience to possibly see even the final act of intimacy, even though eavesdropping on another's life is known as a perversion of human nature and is at the basis of the success of a format like this.
After judging the national televisions for the type of "content" they offer, we should also place a weight of responsibility on the protagonists in there for the way they play and how far they are exposed? This is the responsibility of individuals, not only the choices of programming or content offered by a National Television (the logo of the Television is not important).
In this article, the phenomenon is more important than the term "freedom and rights of women and men in the time we live in today".
When you are a television personality and you are a model in a program that is followed by millions of people of all ages, even if your name is Meriton or if your name is Ilnisa, you should not think twice about where the limit is where instincts are commanded by logic; to think twice about everything that happens under the blanket?!
When you are a mother and father, even though you are "single", you also have to think about the children who see you! For your children and the children of others.
Kosova censored BBV Kosova by turning it into a pin channel and for some claims it was right; we in Albania should have learned a lesson.
The subject of this opinion is;
Why should intimacy be sold on Television?
The protagonists are the example this time, but there are other cases on the screen that disturb!
We will continue to write...
We all know that in these formats, only one plan does not appear; water discharge in the WC!
Blessed is he who knows how to play the game by bringing the good model for which everyone in society has a serious public responsibility!
Consumer television "uses people". The individual should not allow himself to be used and, moreover, to "use himself". We entertain but also educate!
