Summer is the liveliest season and flirting during the hot season "finds a place" even in the reasoning of experts. A guy can woo a girl long before he greets her at the bar, and when better than summer? It's all about body language exercise, says Joel Wade, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at Bucknell University.
But what are the most effective non-verbal ways?
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Sit at the table with one arm resting on the back of the other chair, or lean on the counter with your arms spread apart. These movements convey the idea of ??controlling oneself and physical space, Wade's study found. Women interpret this as a sign of dominance, an important trait to increase a man's attractive potential, he says.
Confide
Men who do not cross their arms are seen as more attractive, active, persuasive, reveals a study published in Evolution and Human Behavior. Avoid postures that would contract or close the body, says Wade. Instead, sit or stand with your legs apart and your elbows away from your body.
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For women, laughing a lot is a sign of femininity and shyness, both qualities that bring you down, according to a study published in Emotion. Of course, you don't have to be depressed. Women are drawn to guys who seem fun and outgoing, Wade says. Just keep the frown constant, the study suggests.
Touch your male friends
Grab your friend and rub their shoulders. Touching male friends, with limits of course, signals a social status and dominance, which women enjoy, says the study in Social Behavior and Personality.
touch your face
Every two minutes, rub your jaw and pull your chin. This will draw attention to your masculine features, says Wade.
The lower part of the face is directly related to testosterone levels. Even if you don't have a strong jawline, drawing attention to it makes you more attractive, he says.
Copy her movements
Easily imitate the way she moves or holds the glass. "Mimicking someone else's behavior can make you more attractive to that person," says Wade. But don't overdo it. "To imitate too much, or too accurately, can have the opposite effect," he says.
Play with your eyes
Men who look around more often are more likely to meet a woman's eyes, and women are more likely to respond to the guys with whom they've exchanged glances, Wade's study says.
So once every few minutes, look around where you are, making sure to stop at it a bit when you do. "You want to catch her gaze, but you don't want it to be too intense," says Wade. Staring at him can make you look too aggressive, or unbalanced, he says.
Now wait for her signs
If you have played all your cards according to the rules, she will send signals that she is interested.
"See if she touches her hair or tucks it behind her ear when she sees you," says Wade.
Even better: See if she raises an eyebrow when you first meet her eyes. "That's a pretty good indication that she's at least open to learning more about you."
Just be careful, it doesn't mean he'll have sex with you!
