Let's face it: many of us are not good when it comes to talking about sex. Even if you enjoy the physical act, honest discussion about it can still feel uncomfortable.
But without open communication, you can miss out on the best sex and a stronger connection with your partner.
Maybe the two of you have been together for a while, so you think you already know everything about each other's experiences and fantasies. But if you don't ask thoughtful questions, you're probably not as in sync as you think.
Speaking to HuffPost, sex experts shared some questions that can help you get to know your partner on a deeper level.
1. What's the dirtiest sexual dream you've ever had?
2. What are the moments when you are most excited?
3. What things turn you on, but not related to sex?
4. What do you think about when you masturbate?
5. When you search for porn or erotica, what category do you search for?
6. Is there anything that makes you turn off the porn you're watching?
7. What is the most adventurous place where you would like to have sex?
8. What do you like to do after we're done having sex?
9. What are you feeling anxious or insecure about right now?
10. Do you like me to touch you somewhere that I don't know?